Thursday, 16 July 2015

Humility in one's self


I would go with a stereotypical fiction, but it’s fascinating to learn from a story too!!

Just like we did in our childhood, we tend to read stories that made us feel proactive and happy, though they were fiction, but we felt like they happened in reality.
Those were the stories, this is going to be a story about something that we need to think upon.

“Once upon a time there was a very proficient, accomplished king of a state, who had a very good rapport with his people in state. One day, his friend, the king of other state, came to meet him up for general discussions and after those long hours of general talks, they had a dinner, but the king didn’t know what his friend was up to. He came up there to kill the king, just to conquer the state. And so, he planned every activity to make that thing happen and yes he did. He lit up the fire in the curtain of the king’s room, but fortunately the king was being escaped from this evil act by his commander of army. When he came to know about the one who was behind all that thing, i.e. his friend, he decided to punish him with the death penalty. So, as the proceedings happened, he was “hanged till death”. Although the king didn’t like what he was doing, he ended up being sad. When he was asked about the burial, he refused for a funeral that time to which hand of “that” commander raised. He asked the king, “Your majesty, with due respect, I would like to ask something” to which the king allowed him to ask. “Your majesty, what would you do if you face a failure in future? Would you be sad thereafter the whole life or would you take up a lesson and cover up your failure with a success?” asked the sanguine commander. The king, without giving a second thought, came up with the latter one as his option. “I got my answer, your majesty” said the commander with a smile on his face. The king then asked him that why did he ask that question, to which the commander replied “Your majesty, I wanted to tell you that, we are not the ones who won’t respect someone’s tradition or culture. Regarding the burial that was being discussed before, I wanted to suggest you that the remains of your friend should be buried with due respect and it should not prejudice the ethics of our culture. I wanted to tell our people that, though our friends betrayed us, but we won’t let our virtuousness go drain. I wanted to tell that, though we have enemies in our friends, but that doesn’t mean that we don’t respect their morals”. The king got amazed by his answer and he appreciated him with lots of incentives. And the king did the funeral session for his friend cum enemy and compensate the loss of the state of his friend by taking over the state with all the responsibilities.

Now thinking why did I tell this story? To make you know that people who are good, will be the same whatever happens to them. And if they don’t want to be, they could become the same by the people like the commander acted for the king. The king was a very kind hearted person, so without a second thought in his mind, he did what his commander suggested him to do.

 We people are being tested, judged and the cycle goes on. You don’t be even knowing that some would instantly judge you by your eye contact!

Never be afraid of someone’s judgement because they won’t be thinking what you do and won’t be suffering what you from. You have to prove them that you are going to do what you want to. You are different than others. What the king did was nothing less than a courtesy towards the culture from which he belong to and his friend did.

Don’t let that goodness drain just because someone betrayed you. You know what’s more important than earning respect from others? It’s the respect that you earn from yourself i.e. self-respect.

VANSH WASSAN, 

EDITOR AT CHARTERED BLOOD



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